The Confidence Gap: Perception vs Reality
Part 4 in the “From the Touchline” series
The most challenging moments in touchline leadership aren’t technical. They’re perceptual.
You’ve seen it before. The CEO or founder paints one picture of reality, while the board or investors see something quite different. Not necessarily better or worse, just fundamentally different.
The confidence gap. The space between how executives experience their business from the inside and how it appears from the touchline.
It’s not about optimism versus pessimism. It’s about proximity versus perspective. And bridging this gap without breaking trust requires The Strategic Multiplication Framework™ approach, multiplying shared strategic clarity rather than imposing external judgement.
When reality looks different from different angles
The confidence gap isn’t a sign of delusion or dishonesty on either side. It’s the natural result of position and the challenge of translating operational experience into strategic insight.
Executives live with their businesses daily. They feel every operational heartbeat. They witness the small victories and improvements that never make it to the board pack. They carry the emotional weight of decisions that others simply review in summary form.
Meanwhile, those on the touchline have the advantage of distance. They see patterns across time, comparisons across businesses, and sometimes risks that can be invisible when you’re immersed in day-to-day execution.
Neither view is complete on its own. But when they diverge significantly, the result is misalignment that can quietly derail strategic execution and undermine The Strategic Multiplication Framework™.
What the confidence gap looks like
The founder who describes product feedback as “minor tweaks” while the board sees fundamental issues with market fit. The CEO who views competitive threats as manageable while investors recognise an existential challenge. The executive team that celebrates cultural improvements while the board waits for performance to follow. The leadership that interprets flat growth as “consolidation” while the board sees early market saturation.
In each case, the gap wasn’t in the facts. It was in their strategic meaning and what they implied for execution effectiveness.
Why the gap forms
The confidence gap forms through natural human tendencies that affect strategic thinking quality.
Emotional investment. When you’ve personally championed a strategy or built a product, maintaining objective assessment becomes difficult. The more sweat equity involved, the harder it is to see fundamental flaws in strategic direction.
Visibility bias. We naturally overweight what we can see daily and underweight what remains abstract. This affects both sides: executives overvalue operational improvements that haven’t yet moved strategic metrics, while boards sometimes underappreciate the complexity required to translate strategic intent into operational execution.
Performance pressure. When expectations are high, particularly in venture-backed or PE-owned businesses, there’s subtle pressure to maintain confidence even when strategic doubt begins to creep in.
The reality distortion field. This term, famously applied to Steve Jobs, describes the phenomenon where strong leaders create conviction so powerful it can temporarily bend perception, for themselves and others.
In one business where I served as Chair, the CEO consistently described customer conversations as “very positive” while conversion metrics remained flat for quarters. He wasn’t being dishonest. In his direct interactions, customers were indeed enthusiastic. What he couldn’t see was that this enthusiasm wasn’t translating into the behavioural change our strategic assumptions required.
Bridging the gap through strategic multiplication
Addressing the confidence gap requires delicacy and strategic skill. Push too hard, and you risk undermining the executive team’s confidence and execution capability. Say nothing, and you fail in your duty to multiply strategic thinking quality.
The most effective touchline leaders I’ve worked with navigate this balance by building shared strategic clarity rather than imposing external perspective. This is where The Strategic Multiplication Framework™ approach becomes particularly valuable, focusing on multiplying thinking capability rather than replacing judgement.
Ask perspective-shifting questions that develop strategic thinking capability: “If you were advising another CEO in this exact situation, what would concern you most?” “If we were just now considering whether to fund this business, knowing what we know today, what would give us pause?”
These questions invite executives to temporarily step outside their immersed perspective without feeling directly challenged, whilst building their strategic assessment capability.
Focus on patterns, not incidents to create shared strategic insight: “Looking at the last three quarters, what pattern do you notice in how we’ve discussed the sales pipeline?” Pattern recognition creates shared reality without creating defensiveness, whilst developing pattern-recognition skills that multiply strategic thinking capability.
Create context through comparison to build strategic benchmarking capability: “How do our customer acquisition costs compare to similar businesses at our stage?” This moves the conversation from subjective assessment to contextual strategic evaluation whilst building the team’s ability to think strategically about competitive positioning.
Separate intent from outcome to preserve confidence whilst maintaining strategic focus: “I can see the tremendous work that’s gone into this initiative. What I’m struggling to connect is how this effort translates to the outcomes we agreed were most critical for strategic success.”
This approach preserves dignity while maintaining focus on strategic results, building the team’s capability to assess strategic effectiveness objectively.
When independent perspective bridges the gap
Sometimes, despite best efforts at internal dialogue, the confidence gap persists and threatens to undermine both strategic clarity and execution capability. This is where an independent operational review can transform boardroom dynamics whilst implementing The Strategic Multiplication Framework™.
Recently, I worked with a high-growth portfolio company backed by a specialist lender. The business had scaled rapidly on strong demand but was facing an inflection point. Headline growth remained impressive, but margin erosion, rising costs, and delivery inconsistency pointed to deeper operational issues that were creating strategic risks.
The lender saw concerning patterns in the strategic metrics. The management team saw operational progress and felt their strategic direction was sound. Both perspectives held truth, but strategic alignment seemed impossible. Previous attempts to raise concerns had been dismissed, not because they were wrong, but because the portfolio team lacked the operational depth to challenge constructively without undermining execution confidence.
The independent operational review created neutral ground where both sides could meet whilst implementing strategic multiplication principles. It wasn’t about proving either side right or wrong. It was about creating a comprehensive picture that incorporated both perspectives while highlighting blind spots each naturally carried, then building shared strategic clarity for moving forward.
The review revealed what neither side had fully appreciated: a combination of strategic overload (multiple major initiatives diluting focus), leadership strain (new executives with limited PE experience affecting execution capability), cost escalation (£1.9 million in overspend undermining strategic assumptions), and expansion misalignment (underperforming international growth contradicting strategic thesis).
What made this approach effective wasn’t just the findings. It was that the review replaced friction with fact, transformed an awkward standoff into clear-eyed strategic discussion, provided management with a credible recovery plan that built on their existing capabilities, and equipped the board with the right questions to multiply strategic thinking quality rather than just monitor performance.
The result wasn’t a dramatic overhaul. It was a practical roadmap to reduce complexity, sharpen strategic priorities, and create conditions for confident leadership execution. Most importantly, it gave both sides shared strategic reality from which productive conversation could emerge whilst building their collective capability to assess and address similar challenges independently.
The board’s role: multiplying clarity without replacing judgement
As a touchline leader, your job isn’t to override the executive’s strategic assessment. It’s to multiply their capability to assess strategically by ensuring that assessment includes perspectives they might not naturally access.
This means creating space for constructive strategic challenge that builds thinking capability. Distinguishing between strategic concern and operational interference. Bringing external reference points into the conversation that develop competitive awareness. Recognising when your own perspective might be limited and building collective strategic insight rather than imposing individual judgement.
The confidence gap is at its widest during periods of transformation or market uncertainty, precisely when strategic alignment and multiplication of thinking capability matters most.
Three practices that multiply strategic clarity
From both sides of the boardroom table, I’ve found three practices consistently effective for implementing The Strategic Multiplication Framework™ approach to bridging confidence gaps.
The structured pre-mortem builds strategic risk assessment capability. Before major initiatives launch, explicitly ask: “If this fails, what will likely have been the cause?” This creates permission to voice strategic concerns while they’re still addressable, without appearing to lack confidence, whilst developing the team’s ability to think strategically about risk.
The reality check round develops honest strategic assessment capability. Once quarterly, have each board member and executive answer: “What’s one thing about our current strategic position that we might not be fully confronting?” Make it a regular ritual, and it becomes less charged whilst building systematic strategic reflection capability.
The outside-in view multiplies market perspective and strategic context. Regularly bring customer voices, market data, and external perspectives directly into board discussions, unfiltered by executive interpretation. This creates shared strategic reality that neither side can easily dismiss whilst building collective market sensing capability.
In one turnaround situation, we instituted a practice where three customer conversations were recorded and shared with the board each quarter, selected at random, not curated for positivity. The unfiltered feedback transformed our collective understanding of our strategic position whilst building our shared capability to interpret market signals accurately.
The strategic discipline of clear sight
Looking strategic reality squarely in the face, without either excessive pessimism or unfounded optimism, is among the hardest disciplines in multiplication leadership.
For touchline leaders, this means balancing strategic support with constructive challenge. It means asking the difficult questions that develop strategic thinking capability without assuming you have all the answers. It means helping executives see what might be in their strategic blind spots while respecting their deeper knowledge of operational reality.
When you master this balance through The Strategic Multiplication Framework™, something powerful happens. The confidence gap narrows not because one side capitulates, but because both sides gain more complete strategic picture and enhanced capability to assess reality objectively. Strategic decision quality improves. Strategic alignment strengthens. And the business moves forward on the basis of shared strategic clarity, not competing perceptions.
This clarity doesn’t come from agreement for its own sake. It comes from mutual commitment to seeing strategic reality clearly and building collective capability to assess and respond to that reality effectively, even when clarity is uncomfortable.
That might be the most valuable contribution any multiplication leader can make—not just solving the confidence gap, but building the strategic thinking capability that prevents it from forming in the first place.
The Strategic Multiplication Framework™ forms part of my strategic operations consulting approach. Working as Chair/NED, Interim CEO, or Executive Coach, I help senior management teams multiply their strategic knowledge and operational effectiveness whilst building sustainable strategic thinking capability.
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